Look Outside

Some of us find ourselves the chaperone of a soul (parent) either on purpose or by circumstance. Either way it is your responsibility to guide that life into the fold of what it means to be human. Most of us try to prepare the little human for the world of expectations and limitations and others merely provide their kids with the knowledge that they were given with no modern or appropriate modification. The tiny human(s) that you love, and raise DO NOT BELONG TO YOU. if you find that you do not have patience than GIVE THEM AWAY TO SOMEONE WHO DOES. if you are having a difficult time remembering that they are people and not responsibilities. Allow them to be with others who honor and SEE them. Understanding that they are people and if you would not like for a particular event to include you THEN you should not want it to happen to them. WHY DO SO MANY OF US COMPARE THE CHILDREN TO THE ADULT STANDARD because we did not learn anything from our trauma. Children are people with the full range of emotions and reactions. They are not little adults or responsibilities. They were sent here for you to guide and prepare for the human experience and not to relive your dreams fulfill your lost opportunities and told to prove other wrong about (including yourself) We should learn more from those who just came here from the unknown. MY STAND ON THIS TREAT THEM WITH RESPECT HONOR PROTECTION WITHOUT FEAR AND LOVE WITH PATIENT AND OPEN EARS AND HEARTS.